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Marriages don’t last…
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Bill Burger-King, Senior. Love you like a brother. Actually more than my real brother. I suggest you contact your other half and have a meeting when both of you are level headed and be as objective as possible. It is easier said than done. I think if you two have been separate and sought counseling, you both need to meet and decide during the meeting whether both of you need more time, or give your relationship one more try. If this is the first time you guys got separated, each of you do deserve a second shot. Ha ving a second shot does not mean you two have to live together right away. Take baby steps. Meet once or twice a week for coffee at a location mutually agreed. Then go out for dinner once or twice a week. Increase the time you spend together. Be yourselves and do not pretend to impress each other. Think about the good times and not the bad. Once words are spoken you cannot take it back. Once actions are executed, you cannot take it back. Therefore, realize what you did wrong, learn from it, seek counseling and guidance, do not hang out with negative people who want to see live drama, and respect and love each other. Many people regret and do not realize how good they have it until its gone. Don’t live with regret. Be humble, honest, and place yourselves in the opposite person’s situation. Watch what you say because each of you will be sensitive and may take words or actions taken the wrong way. Do not assume and if you think something was said or written the wrong way, ask and fact check your thoughts. Words, texts, and actions can be misconstrued the wrong way. Amen, brother.
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It is easier said than done with not getting a lawyer when you are divorcing. Divorce is a very emotional process with each side having hatred towards each other. Many people cannot have a clear head. Going through a divorce without expensive lawyers is possible, but it requires careful planning, communication, and a willingness to work together with your spouse to reach agreements. Keep in mind that divorce laws and procedures vary by jurisdiction, so it’s essential to consult with a legal professional or do thorough research on your specific local laws. Here are some steps to consider:
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Open Communication: Try to maintain open and civil communication with your spouse throughout the process. This can help you both reach agreements more easily and reduce the need for extensive legal involvement.
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Mediation: Consider using a mediator to help you and your spouse negotiate the terms of your divorce. Mediation is often less expensive than hiring lawyers, and it can help you find mutually acceptable solutions. Mediators can assist with property division, child custody, and other issues.
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Do-It-Yourself (Pro Se) Divorce: In some cases, couples with simple divorces can complete the process without lawyers. You can obtain divorce forms and instructions from your local courthouse or online, depending on your jurisdiction. Be sure to follow all the necessary steps and requirements carefully.
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Legal Aid and Pro Bono Services: If your financial situation is challenging, you may be eligible for free or low-cost legal services through legal aid organizations or pro bono attorneys. These resources can help you navigate the legal process without a significant financial burden.
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Collaborative Divorce: Collaborative divorce is an alternative approach that involves both spouses and their respective attorneys working together to reach agreements. While it does involve lawyers, it can be less adversarial and costly than traditional litigation.
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Unbundled Legal Services: Some lawyers offer unbundled legal services, which means you can hire an attorney for specific tasks or consultations rather than full representation. This can be a cost-effective way to get legal advice and assistance when needed.
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Research and Self-Education: Take the time to educate yourself about the divorce process in your jurisdiction. Understanding your rights and responsibilities can help you make informed decisions and reduce the need for legal assistance.
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Online Divorce Services: There are online divorce services that provide step-by-step guidance and document preparation for a fee. While not a substitute for legal advice, they can be more affordable than hiring a lawyer.
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Temporary Orders: If you and your spouse are in disagreement about specific issues, consider seeking temporary orders from the court to establish rules and guidelines while your divorce is pending. This can prevent costly disputes during the process.
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Stay Organized: Keep thorough records of all financial documents, correspondence, and agreements related to your divorce. Being organized can help streamline the process and reduce the time and cost involved.
Remember that while it’s possible to go through a divorce without expensive lawyers, it’s crucial to protect your rights and interests. If you have any doubts or face complex legal issues, it’s advisable to consult with an attorney, even if only for limited advice or representation. Divorce laws can be intricate, and making mistakes can have long-term consequences.
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People are most vulnerable when they are separating from their mates, whether death, separation, or divorce. Do not let your guards down and take it day by day. Try to keep yourself occupied and be around friends who are not negative with positive energy.
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Bill, appreciate you going over the LN independent contractors agreement with me, my man.
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There are many marriages that last forever.
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Absolutely 💯. When you are drinking and drunk everything lasts forever
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It takes two people to make marriage work til death due them part. Same with all relationships. Partnerships, friendship, employment, etc.
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When you are drunk, everything seems logical, a pig looks like a gem, and you talk out of your ass. Nothing good comes out of alcohol.
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Well said. No trust means no relationship. I have been let down so many times. All starts with a simple lie and keeps on growing.
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I rather not get married and get to know the woman for a long time and then get married. My parents had several partnership breakups too because of lies and broken trust.
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